Finding 6 250-count CD cases filled with burned DVD porn, and $30K in credit card charges racked up for various porn websites, DVD purchases, etc.
I’m not against porn, but I discovered that he literally spent every waking hour that he wasn’t working copying porn DVDs. 6-8 hours a day of copying porn. And he’d call in sick easily once a week to spend more time with the porn.
I will never forget this for as long as I live. Our marriage had been on autopilot for a while and one night we finally had a brutally honest conversation/argument. She asked me, “What do you want from me?!” I said, “I just want you to be with me the way I want to be with you.” This is when I knew our marriage was over. She said, “Well, that’s just not going to happen.”
That memory is so incredibly painful for me, even now after we’ve been divorced for years and I am remarried with a beautiful child. I still cry sometimes thinking about my ex. It still hurts.