“Build the anticipation by kissing her passionately while firmly gripping her hair and ever so gently pulling her head away and then close and away once more…teasing her and mimicking the rhythm we have during sex,” says Dilley. Obviously you only want to try this with someone you’re already intimate with; but that extra bit of anticipation and play can make all the difference.
“Women absolutely LOVE anticipation. When I’m engaging with my woman, I enjoy beginning the process much earlier in the day. I’ll often sneak up behind her — half hard — and tell her I can’t wait to taste her later while pressing myself against her,” says Brenden Dilley, celebrity life coach and author of Still Breathin’: The Wisdom & Teachings of a Perfectly Flawed Man.